In Becoming the Talbot Sisters (Thomas Nelson), author Rachel Linden hopes to bring a
greater awareness to issues important to women around the world and encourage
them to live what she describes as “every day brave.”
Becoming the Talbot Sisters tells the story of estranged twin sisters who live very
different lives on opposite sides of the world but are drawn to rebuild their
relationship in support of one another as they face challenges ranging from
miscarriages to sexual assault to career woes. The sisters’ stories draw from
many aspects of Linden’s own life as she shares in the interview below.
An author normally works some of herself into
her novel. How much of Becoming the Talbot
Sisters reflects your own life?
So
much of the book reflects my own personal experience! The main themes – women
having courage to face infertility and miscarriage as well as sexual
exploitation and trafficking – are all very personal for me. I lost my first
child to miscarriage, so I identify deeply with that thread of the book. I also
worked with a faith-based organization in Europe for seven years, focusing
significantly on women who experienced trauma and exploitation, so that theme
is one I am very passionate about. The locations in the book are also dear to
my heart. I set the book mainly in Budapest where I lived for five years. Parts
also take place in Sarajevo and several other fascinating locations around
central Europe, all places I enjoy and want to share with readers.
As
for the sister-relationship aspect of Becoming
the Talbot Sisters, much like Waverly and Charlotte, my sister and I are
very different and live geographically far apart. However, we have a harmonious
relationship and have grown in friendship more and more as we’ve gotten older
unlike the sisters in the book.
Waverly seems to have
it all together but can’t have the one thing she desperately wants in the
world, a baby, due to struggles with infertility and miscarriages. So many
women struggle with the same issues but live in silence. Why is it still so
taboo to talk about emotional trauma involved with pregnancy loss?
I
think a big part of it is that the grief after pregnancy loss is so deeply
personal. It is a unique type of grief, a loss of possibility and potential at
the very start of a life. You are mourning the loss of a life and the loss of
so many hopes and dreams you had for that child. The loss of a child is a
devastating thing, even if it is a baby that had not yet been born.
There
can also be a sense of shame associated with losing a baby, a feeling of
failure or fault. It is easy to feel you might have done something to cause the
loss (although this is highly unlikely) or that there is something wrong with
you or your ability to create or carry life. The loss of a pregnancy can elicit
a complex and confusing mixture of emotions! That combination makes it hard to
talk about and explain to someone who hasn’t had the same experience.
How does infertility
impact a marriage, especially when the husband and wife don’t agree on the
lengths they want to go through in order to have a child of their own?
Infertility
can put incredible strain on a couple’s intimacy. It’s very difficult to not
become task-oriented and focus solely on outcomes in the process of trying to
become pregnant instead of working on building relationship intimacy. The
physical joy and intimacy of the marriage relationship can suffer tremendously
over the months and years of waiting, trying, disappointment, and loss.
Infertility
can also really drive a wedge between couples emotionally, taking a toll on
their ability to enjoy what they have in the present and with each other. Too
often couples become fixated on the fact that what they want to happen isn’t happening.
It’s even more complicated and difficult if the couple isn’t in agreement about
how far they will go to have a child. I greatly admire couples who are able to
walk the painful road of infertility with grace and joy, choosing to be
thankful for their present lives and keeping their hearts open to alternate
ideas of how their family might look in the future. It’s especially inspiring
when they are able to do so in unity and use this painful experience to strengthen
their bond.
The story addresses the
pros and cons of surrogacy. Why is it a subject not often addressed?
I
think surrogacy is just starting to come into our national consciousness as a
viable option for couples who cannot have a child by a more traditional method.
Only in the last few years have I noticed it starting to get more attention in
our society. It’s a concept that goes back to the Old Testament (remember Abraham
and Hagar?), but not one that has been present in American or Christian circles
in recent history.
Surrogacy
is becoming more common, though, and people are starting to consider it more
and more as an option if they struggle with infertility. As it becomes more
widespread, I think the questions and sticky issues around it will need more
attention. It’s a complicated situation with many facets to consider, and I
think the story explores some of them in intriguing ways!
How does the fact that
the sisters lost their parents at a young age play into Waverly’s desire to be
a mom and Charlie’s offer to help her fulfill her dream?
Both
sisters want to restore what they lost when their parents died – a sense of
home and family. Waverly longs for a baby so she can recreate the warmth of the
family she lost at such a tender age. Charlie realizes that she’s built a very
lonely, isolated life as an adult and offers to be a surrogate for her sister
in the hopes of rebuilding their sisterly bond.
Even
though the sisters approach it in different ways, they are both longing for
relational connection and intimacy. That’s what they’re trying to regain in
their adult lives. Humans are made for connection. We crave it. We need it. However,
we are often terrible at knowing how to build and maintain healthy intimacy.
The story is really about Waverly and Charlie having the courage to choose
relational connection, especially the beautiful connections related to
sisterhood and motherhood, and forging those connections in quite unexpected
circumstances.
Charlie’s decision to
help trafficked women in the story is based on your own involvement with an international
not for profit organization. Can you tell us more about your experiences and
how you were able to work them into Charlie’s story?
For
five years I lived in Budapest and worked specifically in the region of central
Europe. I was able to use so many of my experiences as a basis for Charlie’s
life and work in the story. I especially drew on my time working with women who
had been traumatized. Some had been sexually exploited and forced into
prostitution. Living in a region rife with sex trafficking, I came to see how
widespread and pervasive the problem really is. As I met women who had been
trafficked, I realized each one was a normal woman, just like me, despite the
fact they had endured tremendous abuse and trauma. Many were mothers of young
children. We had a lot in common.
I
began to understand sex trafficking is huge in scope, but it is also very
personal. Those sizeable numbers represent individuals with faces, names, and
stories. As I came to know some of these women personally, it made the issue of
trafficking extremely relevant for me as a woman and a person of faith. I could
no longer look at it simply as a vast problem with staggering numbers attached.
I had to look at it through the faces of the women I met . That changed
everything!
For years I’ve wanted to write a story about women
who are caught in sex trafficking, but from a relational, women-centered angle.
I wanted to tell a story about these women in a personal way with compassion
and clarity rather than a sensational way that can cause further harm.
In
the story, Charlie’s decision to help the women she encounters is a direct
result of my experiences helping similar women. Charlie lays aside her own past
trauma and enters into this sisterhood of women helping women, choosing to have
courage in the face of great danger and personal risk. In different ways,
Charlie and the women in the story all exhibit courage and resilience. They
represent so much of my heart for women in trauma. My hope is that in telling
this story, other women will be awakened to find their own courage and help
stop the trafficking and sexual exploitation of women.
How vast is the problem
of human trafficking around the world and in the United States?
The
problem of sex trafficking is staggering in scope. According to new estimates
by the International Labor Organization, roughly 25 million people are in
forced labor worldwide, and 4.8 million people, mostly women and children, are
in forced sexual exploitation. That latter number is more than the entire state
of South Carolina or the country of Ireland!
It’s
an enormous problem, but one that is shrouded in secrecy. We often aren’t aware
of what is happening in our own cities. It was happening frequently in Budapest,
but I didn’t recognize it until I learned some of the signs to look for. It
happens in the US too, but often we are completely unaware of it until it hits
the local or national news.
What are
some of the signs of trafficking to look for, and what should we do when we
start to notice them?
There are a number of
potential warning signs, but here are a few. For a more complete list, check
out Polarisproject.org
·
An individual, usually a woman or child, is
accompanied by an older adult male who may pose as a father figure or
boyfriend. This person is usually a pimp who is controlling the woman.
·
She is not free to come and go at will and does
not seem to have official documents like a passport, visa papers, etc.
·
She shows signs of physical abuse – scars, burn
marks, etc. She may also have a brand or tattoo, often a money symbol, name, or
bar code which could indicate trafficking.
·
She seems tense, nervous, does not make eye
contact, is wary of law enforcement, and seems withdrawn or depressed.
·
She may live at her place of employment, works
strange or long hours, and does not seem to control her own time or money.
·
She has a large debt she cannot seem to pay off but
also may exhibit expensive clothes or jewelry.
·
She lives/works in a location with high security
measures – bars inside the windows, barbed wire, security cameras, locked
doors, etc.
·
She has a contradictory story, is vague or seems
confused about her circumstances, and may be using drugs.
If you suspect someone is
a victim of human trafficking, call the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 1-888-373-7888.
Given that part of the
book is set in Budapest, Hungary, did you have to do a lot of research on the
area?
I
had the privilege of living in the gorgeous city of Budapest for five years and
working extensively in that region of central Europe. I had to do minimal
research because so many of the places I describe in the book are places I’ve
been, and lots of the small details were ones I’ve experienced firsthand. In a
way I was living the research for this book! Central Europe is a beautiful,
somewhat undiscovered region of the world, rich with culture, history, natural
beauty, and of course, very yummy food. This story is, in a way, a love letter
to a region of the world very close to my heart.
How does faith weave
its way into Becoming the Talbot Sisters?
The
underlying themes of the book – courage, connection, and hope – are all deeply
rooted in my own personal faith. I think the story will appeal to readers of
both inspirational and mainstream fiction because the faith elements are subtle
but very relevant. The main characters are on a journey toward relational
healing, intimacy and joy in every aspect of their lives. The story also really
affirms the value of human life, from Charlie’s unborn baby to the central
European exploited women, and the historical figure of St. George plays an
important part in the overarching theme of women having courage to face life’s
big challenges.
The sisters were raised
by their Aunt Mae whose motto was, “Whatever the Good Lord puts in your hand
you give back to others.” How do characters live out this motto in the story?
The
sisters live it out in different ways. Charlie’s offer to be a surrogate for
her twin is one example. She says she has two good ovaries she isn’t using, so
why shouldn’t she carry a baby for her sister? Later she chooses to stand in
solidarity with the trafficked women she rescues, using her position of
influence to help those who have been exploited, despite her own past trauma.
Likewise,
Waverly uses her clout as TV star to try to help her sister when they become
embroiled in a very unexpected and perilous situation. She also opens her
mother’s heart in unexpected ways. Both sisters learn as the story progresses
what it is they have in their hand and how to give it to others in a positive
way.
Courage is a central
theme of the story. What does it mean to be “every day brave”?
I
hope women walk away from reading Becoming
the Talbot Sisters understanding they can courageously face life’s big
challenges, choosing to be “every day brave.”
Every day brave is a simple concept
but it’s not easy. It means standing
with courage against life’s fear and challenges, no matter the
circumstances. As women we can face tremendous challenges in our lives, our
careers, our family relationships, our roles as wives and mothers, sisters and
daughters, matters of the heart, so many areas of life! Being every day brave
takes guts, grit and a steadfast hope and optimism!
You will be donating a
portion of your author proceeds to an organization in Budapest, Hungary that
helps women who have been exploited or trafficked. Can you tell us more about
the work Hope Dies Last does and how you became involved with them?
Yes,
I am absolutely thrilled to be supporting Hope Dies Last and their amazing work
with trafficked and exploited women in Europe. They focus
on creatively addressing the root causes of trafficking and sexual exploitation
as well as supporting other anti-trafficking organizations in the region and
working directly with women in Budapest and around Europe.
I
first connected with them about five years ago and since then have supported
the organization financially, served in an advisory role for them, and
participated with them practically in the work they do. I know the staff very
well and am consistently impressed by their integrity, creativity, and dedication
as they work to help exploited women across Europe.
Find Rachel Linden online at www.rachellinden.com, on Facebook (authorrachellinden) and
on Instagram (rachellinden_writer).
About the Book
Becoming the Talbot Sisters tells the story of estranged twin sisters living very different lives on
opposite sides of the world who begin to rebuild their relationship and learn
to support one another as they face challenges ranging from miscarriages to
sexual assault to career woes. Readers
are introduced to Waverly Talbot, a celebrity chef with her own successful
home-entertaining television show. She seems to have the perfect life, yet she
and her husband have never been able to realize the true desire of Waverly’s
heart: to become a mother. One miscarriage after another has strained their
relationship, and Waverly is at the point of despair, believing that she may
never have a family of her own.
Meanwhile Waverly’s twin sister, Charlie, buries bitter
disappointment and shattered idealism beneath a life spent serving others as an
international aid worker in Budapest, Hungary. Charlie is passionate about
helping exploited women and aids in the rescue of women trapped in human
trafficking in Central Europe. When the aunt who raised them passes away,
Waverly and Charlie come together in their grief after living years on separate
continents. Struck by a fierce desire to bridge the distance between them,
Charlie offers Waverly and her husband the selfless gift of surrogacy.
When the sisters find they are each in danger of losing
their jobs, Waverly makes a bold move and shows up unannounced in Budapest.
From there the sisters embark on an adventure across Central Europe that takes
an unforeseen turn forcing them to stand together to save their careers, the
baby, and each other.
The sisters’ stories draw from many aspects
of Linden’s own life and she hopes to highlight the prevalence of the various
struggles so many women face. “The main themes – women having courage to face
infertility and miscarriage as well as sexual exploitation and trafficking –
are all very personal for me. I lost my first child to miscarriage, so I
identify deeply with Waverly’s story. Though many women face the same struggle
to start a family, it’s not something we talk about because it’s so personal
and painful,” the author explains. “I also worked for five years with a
faith-based organization in Budapest where much of the book is set, focusing
significantly on women who experienced trauma and exploitation, so the work
that Charlie does in the story is something I am very passionate about.”
According to new estimates by the
International Labor Organization, roughly 4.8 million people, mostly women and
children, are in forced sexual exploitation. It’s an enormous problem, but one
that is shrouded in secrecy. Linden hopes to bring attention to the vastness of
the situation by making it personal and relational. “For years I’ve wanted to
write a story about women who are caught in sex trafficking, but from a
relational, women-centered angle. I wanted to tell a story about these women in
a personal way with compassion and clarity rather than a sensational way that
can cause further harm. “
Linden will be donating a portion of the proceeds from
sales of Becoming the Talbot Sisters to
Hope Dies Last, an organization focusing on creatively addressing the root causes
of trafficking and sexual exploitation as well as supporting other
anti-trafficking organizations in Budapest and around Europe. To learn more
about the work the ministry does, visit www.hopedieslast.org.
About the Author
Currently, Rachel lives in beautiful Seattle, WA with her husband and two
young children. She enjoys creating stories about hope and courage with a hint
of romance and a touch of whimsy. Her first book, Ascension of Larks, released in 2017. Becoming the Talbot Sisters is her second release.
Find Rachel Linden online at www.rachellinden.com, on Facebook (authorrachellinden) and
on Instagram (rachellinden_writer).
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