First
of all Jamie, welcome and thanks for finding the time to answer my questions. The
first one for you is: What brought you from your home in California to New
Zealand?
I’m from California. In my mid-twenties,
I had bad dating experiences in California and a dream to live abroad. I read
in a tour book that New Zealand’s population had 100,000 fewer men than women.
In an attempt to have some ‘me time’ I moved to New Zealand.
Why New Zealand as your destination?
As an American
citizen there are actually very few places in the world you can get a work visa
and just show up. If you are an American under thirty you can get a work visa in
Australia and if you are an American under thirty-five you can get a work visa
in New Zealand.
What
was the hardest lesson your learnt starting a new life alone?
I really
feel travel is the best teacher. I didn’t know a soul in New Zealand before I
went there. Within two weeks of my plane landing in New Zealand, I found a
place to live and a job. I don’t know anywhere else in the world you can do
that. I’ve been living abroad since 2010. It’s made me resilient, self-reliant,
fearless and adaptable. I’ve really
learned to trust my instincts and believe in myself.
It was
shockingly easy to relocate to New Zealand literally a few weeks after I made
the decision. It only took a couple of weeks for my work visa to go through. I
was 26, single, I quit my job, I moved out of a little cottage I was renting
and put the few things I had at my mom’s house and brought a suitcase with me
to New Zealand.
What
was the most difficult aspect of living in New Zealand at first? What did you
miss most of home?
The visa I
was on only allowed me to work temporary positions. I worked in a basement,
with ex-cons, next to a perverted mime and with a girl that wore her dead dog’s
collar around her neck. All of the jobs were mundane office work, but the
cubicles were filled with curious characters.
Recently on Twitter, the characters in Getting Rooted in New Zealand are
described as, “Wicked. Lots of heroes and villains. It’s a story you can read
again and again- it’s laugh out loud shocking in parts and cringe worthy, some
office peeps are monsters!” by Colin Mathura-Jeffree, a male model and judge
for the TV show New Zealand’s Next Top
Model. Colin is one of my favorite characters that I meet in New Zealand.
What
did the experience help you discover about yourself?
I had good, bad and weird experiences in
New Zealand. I’m grateful for all the people I encountered, heroes and
villains, the experiences I had turned me into a writer.
What do
you mean by “being rooted”?
My title is another way of laughing at myself.
One night I was brushing my teeth with my flatmate and I said, “I'm really
excited to live in this house because I have been travelling a lot and I just
need to settle down, stop travelling and get rooted.”
I had meant get rooted in the America way to
settle down, lay down roots. He started choking on his toothbrush and asked if
I was hitting on him. He explained to me what rooting meant in New Zealand.
I decided on Getting Rooted in New Zealand because it’s funny and the book is
about rooting – both meanings of the word.
What
would you suggest to young people looking for their own roots?
If things aren’tworking out for you at home with
relationships, instead of staying at home crying that you’re single, consider
yourself free. You are free to do whatever you want.
When
and why did you decide to write a book about your experience?
I was very
lucky in New Zealand to meet a lot of talented people outside of work. I had
the opportunity to write and perform for Thomas Sainsbury the most prolific
playwright in New Zealand. I performed a monologue about my jobs in the
Basement Theatre in Auckland.
The funny
thing about that experience was Tom kept me separated from the other performers
until it was time to perform. I was under the impression that all the
performers were foreigners giving their experiences in New Zealand. All of the other performers were professional
actors telling stories that weren’t their own. At first I was mortified, but
the audience seemed to enjoy my “performance,” laughing their way through my
monologue. After the shows we would go out and mingle with the audience. People
would ask me how long I had been acting. I would tell them, “I wasn’t acting; I
have to go to work tomorrow and sit next to the girl wearing her dead dog’s
collar.” No one believed I was telling the truth.
What is
your new life as a writer living in England
like at present?
For unwanted and complicated reasons we had to
move to Sheffield, England (a couple hours north of London). We have to move out of Edinburgh to Sheffield,
England last year for my husband graduate school. We will have to live here
until summer 2014.
I decided to be displaced with the goal of
publishing. I’ve just completed a MA in Design. Designing, publishing and
marketing my book was my dissertation project. I published Getting Rooted in New Zealand in April and have been traveling around
the UK doing book talks at libraries, with book clubs and reading
festivals. Last week I was at a library
in Merthry Tydfil in Wales, Words Over Waltham Forest in London and The
Festival of Romance in Bedford. I’m trying to network as much as possible.
What is
the most beautiful memory/image you’ve
treasured in your heart from New Zealand?
By the
time I meet my husband at the age of twenty-seven, I had fulfilled my dream of
living abroad, been single for over a year and felt healed from previous heartbreaks.
We had a mutual friend that invited us both to watch the fireworks on New
Year’s Eve. At first all I heard was his Scottish accent in the dark, rolling
Rs and all. It was the sexiest accent I had ever heard. We found out we were
living in the same neighborhood and he asked me out for neighborly tea. I tried
to say no, but he just looked and sounded so mesmerizing.
He was a
perfect gentleman. He was more clueless about dating than I was. I found
comfort in our mutual awkwardness. He
was very different than the guys I dated in California. We spent the first
couple months going on long walks and talking. It reminded me an old-fashion
courtship. I knew very early into dating him that he would be my husband.
Will
you go back to New Zealand?
I currently have to live in the center of
England. I desperately miss the ocean and being warm at the beach. I really
miss the warm, friendly nature of the people in the South Pacific. As
crazy as my job experiences were in New Zealand, I would actually like to return
to New Zealand and give it another try working as a writer. It would be great
to return to New Zealand to make Getting
Rooted in New Zealand into a TV show.
What
are you up to in your writing career?
I plan to divide my books by the countries
I've lived in. I've lived in five countries; America, American Samoa, New
Zealand, Scotland and now England. My next book will be about attempting
to settle in Scotland.
That’s
all, Jamie. Thanks a lot for our little chat. I’m always glad to meet special
people like you thanks to the Net and my blog. Good luck and best wishes for
your personal life and writing career. I’ll wait for you back at FLY HIGH! soon
to present and discuss your next book.
Getting Rooted in New Zealand
Craving change and lacking
logic, at 26, Jamie, a cute and quirky Californian, impulsively moves to New
Zealand to avoid dating after reading that the country's population has 100,000
fewer men. In her journal, she captures a hysterically honest look at herself,
her past and her new wonderfully weird world filled with curious characters and
slapstick situations in unbelievably bizarre jobs. It takes a zany jaunt to the
end of the Earth and a serendipitous meeting with a fellow traveler before
Jamie learns what it really means to get rooted.
About the author, Jamie
Baywood
Jamie Baywood grew up
in Petaluma, California. In 2010, she made the most impulsive decision of her
life by moving to New Zealand. Getting Rooted in New Zealand is her first book
about her experiences living there. Jamie is now married and living happily
ever after in the United Kingdom. She is working on her second book.
Facebook.com/jamiebaywood
Twitter.com/jamiebaywood
Pinterest.com/jamiebaywood
This book sounds AWESOME!
ReplyDeleteThank you very much!
ReplyDeleteAlready in NZ! LOL Looking forward to reading about some of the quirky characters you have come across. It will be interesting to see my country through someone else's eyes :)
ReplyDeleteI have heard great things about Australia, which is tantalizingly close to New Zealand. Do you know which country has the stronger economy? Would you be willing to live in a country that does not speak English? I'd love to hear stories about your move to Scotland!
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ReplyDelete"If things aren't working out for you at home with relationships, instead of staying at home crying that you're single, consider yourself free."
I would love to know the new Zealand, Katherine Mansfield lived there and talk a lot in daily. I'd like to run away and start over far, far away. But I'm not so young anymore.
Congratulations, Jamie, for having had the courage to leave everything and win.(translator)
Kisses Maria Grazia
People may not realise this, but "getting rooted" is also New Zealand slang for having sex, so in NZ this title is a pun.
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